First and foremost to my mother. She raised me right, even though it may not seem so at times. There aren't enough words to show my genuine appreciation for her! She guided me on the right path, while somehow giving me the ability to become who I am (I'm the kind of person who falls off of paths...) Mom, I love you. Without your undying support, I never would have made it to where I am. And I like where I am!
Second, to my children. Wow. I never knew how much a soul could love or hurt until I had children. BEING a mama is the single most rewarding, terrifying, challenging, bittersweet, awesome, and difficult part of life. 8 of them. 4 by birth, 3 by marriage, and 1 by foreign exchange. (And a whole mess of em by friends of those mentioned!) They have made my life wonderful and miserable, and when push comes to shove, I hope they ALL know I have their back and they are my heart and soul.
To my Grandma Shirley. I am so blessed to still have and regularly see my grandmother. She has been a large part of my life, and I will always be grateful for the time I have had with her.
To my mother-in-law, Pam. I have so many reasons to thank you. For raising a man to love me with all of his being. And for being my rock when I want to strangle that man. You, with open arms, took me in, and all of my children, as if you never knew any different. They love their grandma Pammy, and so do I.
For all of my moms that are no longer with me. Leslie, Diane, and Sandy. My mothers-in-love. I am a better person for having known each of you, and I miss you all every day.
To Delilah. I know you just delivered your first baby, but do not underestimate the mom you've already been to my children. Not even just Jovian. All of my kids love you, and consider you their step-mom, regardless of definition or who married who.
To those who have lost their moms. To those who long to BE moms... I celebrate you on this day. Because your heartache doesn't go unnoticed. Because you are strong. Because we are all in this life together and when you hurt, I hurt.
For ALL of my family and friends... Remember it takes a village. You have all been a part of my village. From being there for my children when they needed you, to baby sitting for me when I needed you. From listening to me vent about the pains in my butt, to listening to me brag about my fabulous offspring. From the parenting advice to the epic mom-fail story sharing... This is for you.
We all fail. We all succeed. Motherhood isn't about giving birth. Motherhood isn't even about raising a child! It's simply about loving a child. Any child.
Happy Mother's Day...
DRD
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